We live in a world now where loyalty, outward appreciation for your woman and being a sweetheart is now viewed a weakness and something that will end up costing you as a man in the end.
Take Seahawks star quarterback Russell Wilson. To help his songstress wife celebrate her 32nd birthday, the singer received a birthday message from her football hubby.
He went all out with the word play:
“Hey, C! You know, a lot of people say that they’re your number one fan, but I’m actually your number one fan—without a doubt. I just want to say you’re the best women I know, the best mom I know, the best wife I know, the best thing I could ever imagine.Wilson ended the video by blowing a kiss.
“I thank God every day that he brought you into my life. There is so much I could say right now, but I just love you and I am grateful for you. There are a lot of people who love you, but I love you the most. OK, we love you. Thanks, mama.”
My Love... You are the best a man could ask for. I love you! @Ciara pic.twitter.com/ATukp7E8lf— Russell Wilson (@DangeRussWilson) October 25, 2017
Social media went ballistic, labeling the Seahawks star “too sweet," while questioning whether or not that will leave him susceptible to being cheated on.
Is Wilson too nice, or are we in a day and time where being loyal, loving, and all in for your women makes you a sucker?
My baby brought Chef Arcy from our favorite Umi Sushi restaurant to teach us how to make our own Sushi! #PerfectBirthday @DangeRussWilson ❤️ pic.twitter.com/JwVipPSppZ— Ciara (@ciara) October 26, 2017
Men like this get cheated on 99.9% of the time.pic.twitter.com/VZMhJMo8vq— Ok (@DueceTimes) October 25, 2017
People really don’t understand how Russell Wilson treats Ciara is how every man is suppose to treat their wife. Period.— Dom Phantom (@DRDishman) October 27, 2017
Settling for Russell Wilson? How do you "settle" for a handsome, athletic millionaire?— MonsterKing (@CerromeRussell) October 27, 2017
Reason why niggas hate Russell Wilson is Bc when they see him they can’t see a reflection of themselves. It makes em feel threatened.— Yac House P (@PhillyTheBoss) October 24, 2017
Is Russell Wilson suppose to treat that child like shit? Is he not his step father? Y'all want him to not say shit to the boy ππ— suckaforbigforeheads (@traytrayolay) October 24, 2017
Ciara ain't never cheating on Russell Wilson. Long money and a man that loves you unconditionally. It takes a special kind of Dumbo.— Nobleman (@WayneHarper_) October 26, 2017
Joking about Russell Wilson being a dweeb >>>>>>>>>— Slevin Kelevra πΊπΈ (@ToeKnee2GX) October 26, 2017
Getting upset that he's being a dope step dad???? Please seek therapy
I feel like men who dislike Russell Wilson because of his relationship with Ciara simply hate that he represents everything they fail to be.— Toni (@t0nit0ne) October 26, 2017
All of the ain't shit men don't like Russell Wilson & call him corny. Even though he ain't did shit, but respect Ciara & be a good father..— Chihiro Ogino (@WickedBeaute) October 25, 2017
Russell Wilson the first Black man to get money and leave his white woman for a Black one and you niggas wanna hate, I'm disgusted. pic.twitter.com/oq95xLqRRd— HAZE (@DayHaze) October 28, 2017
Wherever you wanna go... I’ll take you.— Russell Wilson (@DangeRussWilson) October 25, 2017
I Love you! @Ciara
Happy Birthday Mama! #YouStoleMyHeart pic.twitter.com/f2NaVkQU88